|
Thanks for your interest in our club. If after reading this,
you still have further questions, please feel free to contact us at:
samanthasplace69@hotmail.com
What is the average age of
couples at your club?
Our guests & members average
ages seem to be early 30's - mid 50's;
however, we do have couples at our club in all age groups from 19 to
50+.
Drink Prices?
Our venue controls the bar service prices and they are
similar to upscale bars in town. Average 4.50 - 6.50 per drink.
What is the dress code?
We always say that you should "dress to impress." Jeans are
allowed, but we ask that they be clean and neat. Many dances have
themes, so you may want to consider what the theme is in picking your
outfit for the night. You do not have to dress in theme if you are not
comfortable or just not in the mood that night. It can be fun to dress up.....but it is certainly
not mandatory.
Does nudity or sexual
activity take place at the dance?
Our club is "OFF PREMISE" which means sexual activity is NOT
allowed in our club. Genital nudity is also not allowed. However, for
the ladies, we do allow flashing and sheer or see- through clothing.
My spouse and I are new to
the lifestyle, or have not had any
experiences yet in the lifestyle, what can we expect?
You will meet couples at all stages and all levels of the lifestyle, from
strictly exhibitionists who enjoy dressing and dancing sexy for each
other to couples who enjoy full swap in their playtime, and everything
in between.
Do we have to mingle with
other couples or can we just stick with
each other?
It is important to keep in mind that you NEVER have to do anything. If
anyone tries to imply that you must do something that you are
uncomfortable with, we ask that you report that to one of the hosts
immediately. Every couple has their own level of comfort and should
not do anything outside of their comfort zone. Although we do
advise that you will have a better experience if you are open and able to
chat with new couples, just be sure to state your limits and rules up
front with them so that there will be no misunderstandings.
Does everybody know each
other there?
Many people do know each other as they come to almost every dance
however there are new couples at every event.
Our members and guests are very open and accepting of new couples. This is
not to say that they view new couples as "fresh meat".
They do not want to scare you away or come across as too aggressive, so
they will usually leave it up to you to start up a conversation or make
the first move. Remember just because you talk to someone, doesn't
mean you have to sleep with them! All of our members and guests are very courteous and respectful of limits. Each member is
responsible for reading our rules and therefore they know that
applying pressure of any kind, to anyone, is forbidden.
Everyone
in the club is open-minded and has come out to meet new people
in the lifestyle (just like you), so you already have something in
common with every person in the room!
Will there be other new
couples there?
Samantha's Place has on average at least 15-25% new couples at each
dance. So chances are there will be quite a few new couples just like
you. If you'd like us to introduce you to anyone in particular we
will be happy to do that as well. In addition, we try to plan the theme to include some type
of clothing theme to get people up and talking with each
other.
What kind of music do you
play and do you take requests?
We play mostly top 40 music with a higher ratio of slow songs. Our
DJ is top notch and he plays the music that gets people up and dancing. He also takes requests and tries his best
to fulfill everyone's likes. If you have any music suggestions or
requests you can email him directly at:
christhedj72@yahoo.ca
Are there any after
parties?
There are no organized after parties by us per se, but we do have many couples
that rent rooms at local hotels for after the dance. Please be aware
that unless you are specifically invited to attend an after-party you
should not assume that it is open to anyone. Once you leave the dance
Samantha's Place has no control over what
may, or may not, happen at a party and we cannot provide the same safe, no pressure
environment that we have at the club.
We need a hotel nearby.....
We have a list of hotels and motels listed on this website that
are
within a short driving distance or walk to our club.
Click here for information on nearby hotels
or click
here to compare prices and/or book a hotel
What about
BYOB Alcohol?
Due to Canadian laws, we cannot allow people to bring in their own
alcohol. Therefore we have a fully stocked bar with reasonable prices.
We have terrific
bartenders to serve you.
What is the Cover Charge?
The cover charge is $40 per guest couple or $10.00 for a single female.
Members pay only $25 per couple. This includes professional DJ, door
prizes and much more. If you decide to become members, you will receive the benefit of $15 off the
cover charge at each visit. Memberships are just $60/year (guest
admission of $25 will apply for all events for the next 12 events,
including the event at which the membership is purchased).
What do we need to do to
become members or to attend a dance for
the first time?
To Register Online click here
Or you can
email us your
first names (this information is never shared). Once we receive your
names we will email you a confirmation letter with directions
and add your names to the guest list at the door. When you arrive at our
club for the first time we will ask you to read the club rules and sign
an agreement that you will abide by the rules and that you are aware of
what our club is about and that you understand that "No, means
No".
Where is the club?
The club is located Downtown in London, Ontario, Canada. For the
privacy of our guests and members, we do not send out directions until
we have received your registration. We do
have security at the door who will not allow anyone in who is not on the
guest list, so it is important that you make reservations online.
What time do things
start/end?
The doors for the dance open at 8:30 p.m. and
we ask that people are there by 11:00 (if you may have to arrive after
11pm please let us know). Last call usually takes
place at 1:30 a.m. and we turn on the lights at 2:00 a.m.
I'm
concerned about running into someone I know there.
While we cannot guarantee that you won't know somebody there, it is
important to keep in mind that if you do see someone you know, they are
there for the same reason that you are. We do our best to ensure
the privacy of all of our guests & members. If you arrive and
you see someone you know we suggest that you approach them and make it
clear that you expect discretion. After all, any
couple that says they saw you at a "Swinger Dance" will be
outing themselves in the process.
Are singles allowed?
We welcome single females. Samantha's Place does
NOT allow single males to attend.
Single Males Click Here
What suggestions do you
have to make our first visit a good one?
We suggest that you find out as much information about the lifestyle as
possible. Ask questions, research on the web, and if possible join
a chat room, message board or yahoo/msn groups and introduce
yourselves. Many of our guests and members use
Cafe Desire. You may be able to get to know some other couples
online before you go to your first event, this will make you a bit more
at ease knowing that you will know somebody else there.
What other events do you
offer?
We currently have monthly dances which are held at our club in London.
These are a very casual, no pressure get together of members and new
couples and is a great way to get your foot in the door and ease into
things. Discretion is provided as there is no indication at the
door as to
what type of group we are, it's just like a group of friends out for
drinks together. Dress code is neat & casual, or dress the theme. We
occasionally organize road trips to other clubs and swinger travel.
We hope to see you at the next Samantha's Place event!
Thank You & Take Care.
Skye and Todd
|
