Are you new and unsure what to expect at Samantha's Place?

Will there be other new people at the event?
While we have a large number of couples and some single women and f-f couples who regularly attend our events, we also have quite a few new couples and single women at every one of our events.  In most cases these new couples are not only attending Samantha's Place for the first time, it is also their first time coming to a swing club.  Most people are at least a little bit nervous on their first visit, as they aren't sure what to expect.  For those of you who are interested in attending one of our events and are not sure what to expect we hope that the following information will help you feel more comfortable.

Samantha's Place has at least 25% new guests at each event, so chances are there will be quite a few new guests, just like you. 

What time do most people arrive and what happens throughout the evening?
The doors open at 9:30pm and we we ask that everyone try to arrive by 11pm, if you arrive later and we're not at the sign-in table just wait a few moments for us or ask another guest to point us out.  The majority of guests get there between 9:30 and 10:30pm.  Early in the evening we have a "Meet and Greet" atmosphere, with quieter music  for those who would like to start off the evening in a quieter atmosphere more conducive to chatting.  We'll turn up the music for dancing as the night goes on.  There are no club associated after-parties but some people do chose to continue the party elsewhere after the club closes, these are by invitation only from the hosts and are in no way associated with Samantha's Place.

What is the average age of guests?
Our guests' average ages seem to be early 30's - late 40's; however, we do have couples at our club in all age groups from 19 to 50+.

What do we need to do to attend an event?
To Register for our next event click here .
The only personal information we ask for is an email address.  This information is held in confidence and we never share it.  Once you've emailed us your request to register you'll receive a confirmation email with the address and additional event information.  If you don't see the email reply in your inbox within a few minutes please check your junk mail folder and if necessary email us again.

How should we dress?
Each of our events has a theme with suggested sexy attire.  Dressing in theme is always optional and guests dress in theme to varying degrees depending on the theme - at least 90% of guests dress up for Halloween, while for other events the percentage of those who dress in theme is significantly less.  We always request that guests dress to impress.  When they don't dress in theme, most of the women wear a sexy dress or a skirt and nice top and the men usually wear a button-down shirt or golf shirt with a nice pair of jeans or dress pants.

Ellestyles is a Canadian company, owned by a couple who are in the Lifestyle.  They have a fantastic selection of sexy outfits to treat yourself or your partner ;), and they'd be perfect for our events, for those of you who really want to stand out!




Does nudity or sexual activity take place at the events?
Our club is "OFF PREMISE" which means sexual activity is NOT allowed in our club. Genital nudity is also not allowed. However, for the ladies, we do allow flashing and sheer or see-through clothing.

What happens when we arrive?
There will be a sign on the door that says "Private Party" our sign simply states that it is a private function, there is nothing to distinguish the event as a swing club event.  When you arrive Todd or Skye will give you a wrist band when you pay and then you're free to enjoy the evening.  If it's your first time at an event please let us know so that we can explain the door prize draw and point out where things are.  Todd and I are available throughout the evening if you have any questions or concerns.

What are the drink prices?
Our venue controls the bar service prices and they are similar to upscale bars in town. Average 4.50 - 6.50 per drink.

Does everybody know each other there?
Many people do know each other as they regularly come to events, however there are new guests at every event.  They are very open and accepting of new guests but they do not want to scare you away or come across as too aggressive, so they will often leave it up to you to start up a conversation or make the first move.  Remember: just because you talk to someone, doesn't mean you have to sleep with them!  Our guests are very courteous and respectful of limits. 

Everyone in the club is open-minded and has come out to meet new people in the lifestyle (just like you have), so you already have something in common with every person in the room!

I/We are new to the lifestyle, or have not had any
experiences yet in the lifestyle, what can we expect?
You will meet guests at all stages and all levels of the lifestyle, from strictly exhibitionists who enjoy dressing and dancing sexy for each other to those who enjoy full swap in their playtime, and everything in between.

What suggestions do you have to make our first visit a good one?
We suggest that you find out as much information about the lifestyle as possible.  Ask questions, research on the web, and if possible join a lifestyle website geared to swingers or those interested in swinging.  You may be able to get to know some other guests online before you go to your first event, this will make you a bit more at ease knowing that you will know somebody else there.

What suggestions do you have to help us meet others?
At our events you're more than welcome to just sit back and take it all in but if you would like to meet and chat with others it will be easiest to do if you are in a busier area of the club.  Good places to easily strike up a conversation is by the bar or on the dance floor.  Remember, too, that there will be many others who are also there for the first time!  Our guests are friendly and welcoming, while being respectful of not overstepping any boundaries.  As a result it may be easier to meet others if you approach them first. 

Do we have to mingle with others or can we just stick with
each other?
It is important to keep in mind that you NEVER have to do anything.  Everyone has their own level of comfort and should not do anything outside of their comfort zone.  Although we do advise that you will have a better experience if you are open to chating with other guests, it is totally up to you how much you interact with others, if at all.

What kind of music do you play?
We play mostly top 40 music with some 80s and 90s songs.

Where is the club?
We are located just east of Highbury/Dundas, in London, Ontario.

Are singles allowed?
We welcome single females.  Men must be with a female partner/friend to attend (we do not make any exceptions to this).
Single Males Click Here

Are there any door prizes?
Yes, each of our events is sponsored by an adult store which supplies assorted gift bags for us to give out at our events around 11:30pm.  Usually we do this in the form of a draw by giving each guest a door prize ticket at the door but for certain events the gift bags go to the winner(s) at the event (ie: most beads collected at Mardi Gras or best costumes at Halloween).  We also often have extra prizes for dancing in a certain place on the dance floor or dancing behind the shadow dancing screen when a specific song plays, ask us for details when you arrive.

I'm concerned about running into someone I know
While we cannot guarantee that you won't know somebody there, it is important to keep in mind that if you do see someone you know, they are there for the same reason that you are.  We do our best to ensure the privacy of all of our guests.  If you arrive and you see someone you know we suggest that you approach them and make it clear that you expect discretion.  After all, anyone who says they saw you at a "swinger event" will be outing themselves in the process.

If you still have questions after reading the above information just send us an email and we'll be happy to reply!

We hope to see you at the next Samantha's Place event!
Thank You & Take Care.
Skye and Todd